10 Top Tips For Surviving The Family Christmas
1. Leave the Past where it belongs, your version of it only exists in your head.
2. If you are going to imagine a future event or conversation, a “What if?”, make it how you’d LIKE it to be. Feel the difference.
3. Know that people do change over time, and it’s OK if you no longer think the same.
4. No need to get into arguments, just say, “Interesting point of view” (no sarcasm please).
5. S/he who gets Angry loses. Angry drunks are the biggest losers.
6. “No one can make you feel inferior without your permission.” Eleanor Roosevelt.
7. Be aware that gifts are crucial to some, while others feel more loved when you spend time in conversations, or make time to visit and give hugs. How do you most feel loved?
8. Value yourself and your needs. Say ‘No’, and be prepared for the initial resistance.
9. If you want to others to treat you better, you’ll need to reset and maintain your boundaries.
10. Allow yourself and the children to play and have fun – create happy memories.
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It all starts with you, because you are the only person you can change. Your positive changes to how you feel and behave then have a ripple effect out across all areas of your life, including your health, career and finances.
Your life is NOW, not tomorrow, so do what you need to, and enjoy it now.
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