Sabotaging Self Talk – Stop!

Avoid asking yourself “Why?” questions, as the answers can be hyper critical and unproductive. “What” And “How” tend to give more empowering and solution orientated answers.

 Compare these examples:

Q:  Why are my sales so bad?

A:   Because I’m useless.  Because of the economy/the weather/God is punishing me.  Because people couldn’t spot a good deal if they tripped over it.

Vs

Q: What can I do differently to improve my sales? Or: How can I share the benefits of my Widget more effectively?

A:  I can ensure I’m in a positive mindset, smile more and focus on listening to my customers’ needs then I can match my product to their needs, rather than just ‘selling’.  I can change the display so people can touch and try before they buy.  I can talk about all the wonderful results from using it (benefits), rather than talk about the buttons and battery life (features).

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