Written with the stressed business woman in mind – easy to read and apply.
“In Chapter 13 I discuss how to change your unconscious blueprint(TM) of yourself and your partner, but for the moment start focussing on what you want to see or hear or feel from your partner. You’ve already proved you can easily notice when it’s absent, and all that has done is create a negative anchor to your partner. In other words, you’ve taught yourself to associate unpleasant feelings with your partner, or at least part of his/her behaviour. Or perhaps you’ve anchored negativity into your home, so as soon as you walk through the door you feel frustration or resentment. If it’s fear you feel, seek professional support NOW. Seriously!
So now it’s time to turn those powers towards increasing your happiness instead of your unhappiness. Keep a sharp eye out for evidence that what you want already exists, highlight and reward it by using your partner’s love strategy immediately (as discussed earlier in this chapter, and in the “Win-Win Loving” ebook) Just as in training children and animals, the closer the reward to the action, the faster the learning. What you focus on increases, and that old adage, “You catch more flies with honey than vinegar” is so true. Remember, the ‘honey’ is first and foremost your partner’s love strategy, not yours, though you can throw that in as a bonus.”
Read on for more about linguistic hand grenades, designing your ideal partner and boundary setting.
– Excerpt from Chapter 12, “The Face Within: How to Change Your Unconscious Blueprint”, your own D.I.Y. head trash clearing kit available from the shop tab or CLICK HERE
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